Just Believe!

“ Tot hartuindu-l si argumentand vei reusi poate sa-l incurci pe interlocutor, dar victoria ta va fi desarta, fiindca nici o data nu vei reusi sa-l faci pe adversarul tau sa fie sincer de acord cu tine ” Benjamin Franklin. Discutiile contradictorii foarte rar reusesc sa solutioneze un conflict de idei. Discutand ai putine sanse sa-l faci pe celalalt sa inteleaga de ce nu are dreptate. In noua cazuri din zece, fiecare dintre adversari ramane cu convingerea ca el are dreptate. Intr-o zi, Lincoln a spus: “Omul care vrea sa se ridice nu are timp de pierdut in certuri. Acestea inacresc caracterul si te fac sa-ti pierzi controlul asupra ta. Nu te teme sa faci conccesii. Mai bine sa cedezi calea unui caine decat sa te muste certandu-te cu el, fara sa vrei sa-l lasi sa treaca. Caci chiar omorand cainele, nu vei anula efectul muscaturii”. Cel mai bun mijloc de a triumfa intr-o cearta este de a o evita! Evita sa incepi prin “Iti voi dovedi…” caci in perceptia celuilalt, ac...

1)  Constantly keep yourself focused One of the hardest things about keeping a positive attitude, is remembering to constantly focus on the desired end result. Life throws lots of negativity at us and it can sometimes get to the point where lashing out against the onslaught is nothing less than self defense. However, if you create a negative state of mind by reacting in a less than positive manner – no matter how justified that reaction may be – you will still have created that negative state of mind. 2) Don't let negative thoughts develop more than you want  No matter how motivated you are to improve your life there will always be people who regularly insist on bringing negativity into your life. Get rid of them and the situations. Yes, yes, I know. You can’t get rid of your family members, you can’t fire you co-workers, blah, blah, blah.  No, you may not be able to completely get rid of them, but you can limit your interaction with them, and y...